Engels, Iets Anders

The first, most important thing to know is that I am actively polyamorous, with no intention of nor interest in changing that, ever. I am an eclectic, eccentric, independant thinker. I accept no dogma; I neither give blind obediance to anything, nor do I refuse to believe in anything. I do not assume that the new is better than the old, nor the reverse. I believe every person, idea, or event should be judged on merit, not on whether it has "always (or never) been done that way", or is endorsed by some alleged "expert" or "authority". I love life, and people; I believe that fun is sacred.

Maagd

Stevig

5' 9 (1.75 m)

Blauw

Blank, Iets Anders

Nee

Nee

Ogen

Iets Anders

Bruin

Kat, Vogel

VWO

Gepensioneerd

Gepensioneerd

Challenger of social norms

Tussen de €15.000 en €30.000

Met Huisgeno(o)ten, Met Huisdier(en)

Komen er soms vrienden langs

Nee

Nee

Intelligent

Vriendelijk, Grappig, Flirterig, Gezellig, Donker, Raar

Lezen, Muziek, Tv, Films, Internet, Spellen, Eten, Reizen, Koken, Auto's, Kamperen, Computers

Met Vrienden zijn, Feesten, Thuis blijven, Ik probeer graag nieuwe dingen, Films, Relaxen, Slapen, Een boek lezen, Videospellen spelen, Tv, Naar een concert gaan, Naar een museum gaan

Any date where, once you get comfortable enough to really talk (and you do), you both feel like you've known each other forever; wherever fun is had, and attraction is mutual.

Vriendelijk, Cool, Ranzig, Obscuur, Gek, Een Flirt

Spiritueel Maar Niet Religieus

Op Feestdagen

- To change the Western world's assumption that all legitimate relationships have to be monogamous.
- To love as many worthy people as I can, as deeply & for as long as I can.
- To make conservatives realize that compassion, a sound environment, & tolerance are in their own best interests, & liberals realize there's nothing wrong with honestly-earned wealth or self-defense, and all of them understand that freedom is only real if we grant it even to people & ideas we don't like.
- To make the world a more ****positive & a more just, less overpopulated place.
- To put an end to all forms of intolerant fundamentalism.

But mostly, to help my friends live happier lives, and do so myself at the same time.

Slim, Droge Humor / Sarcastisch, Obscuur, Ranzig

Nieuws, Tekenfilms, Documentaires, Drama's, Films, Sport

Actie, Science Fiction, Drama, Animatie, Erotisch

Country, Rock, Metal, Electonische Muziek , Pop, Klassiek, Jazz, Soul, Folk

Autobiografie, Biografie, Comedy, Fantasy, Geschiedenis, Mysterie, Politiek, Satire, Natuurwetenschap, Science Fiction

- discussing polyamory (ethical NON-monogamy)
- reading
- movies
- - singing
- cooking
- subverting people's assumptions about society, **** politics, religion, & relationships
- spending time with friends
- ****(hey, let's be honest, here!)
- well-done TV
- listening to/singing along with recorded music (a separate issue from singing by myself)
- travel (when I can afford it)
- computer games
- museums (non-abstract art, archeology, natural history)
- socio-politically critical stand up comedy (like George Carlin, Chris Rock, Bill Maher, etc)
- learning about new inventions/gadgets/discoveries
- chocolate

Intelligentie, Goed Uiterlijk, Humor, Goeie Vaardigheden, Empathie, Gevoeligheid, Moed, Eigenaardigheden, Spontaniteit, Macht, Flirterig, Gevatheid, Bedachtzaamheid

Relationships from "friends with benefits" to "long-term lover" to "co-spouse in an open multipartner marriage."

A mind that is *truly* open, without being irrational or gullible. A kind, patient heart. A big sense of fun, in bed & everywhere else. Polyamory (ethical nonmonogamy). Something resembling a reasonable degree of emotional health. Highly ****positive attitudes. Mutual attraction in both mind & body. Healthy passion. Someone(s) who can not only accept me as I am, but *appreciate* me as I am.

Date, Intimiteit, Vastigheid